I am tired of playing the dating game. I am the real deal, I am down to earth, outgoing, single male who is just looking forward to sharing my life with a real women again,,, :),
I have my own home overlooking Cowichan Bay,,,,I finally realised that today is the first day of the rest of my life, I have two great kids, and 2 healthy grand kids.and great froends,that keep me focused and show me how lucky I really am.
I just have lost over 200 pounds and now am getting back into great shape so I welcome the challenge
"I am a genuine, down to earth guy with a welcoming sense of humor. I have a very eclectic taste in music and movies and always interested in trying something new. I enjoy meeting open minded people who enjoy exploring new places and trying new things. Anyone who is easy-going, sociable, and loves to laugh will get along great with me."
I have changed a great deal for the better because of two and now the third books that I have remodeled my life after they are THE FOUR AGREEMENTS and THE MASTERY OF LOVE and just read THE FIFTH AGREEMENT ..Toltec books of self help and wisdom written by DON MIGUEL RUIZ...they are all about the following.
1..Be Impeccable with your Word
2.Dont take Anything Personally
3.Dont Make Assumptions
4.Allways Do Your Best
5.Just finished The 5th Agreement an awesome read so far...just be skeptical and listen...Thanks SAM its a great life..

I have a hard time with this line of meeting people the internet wizardry is complex and full of people who just play games, so if I do message you it has taken a great deal of thought to have the courage to get in contact with you so , please message me back either way to avoid any misunderstandings
I miss the companionship, conversation and intimacy that come with having a good relationship. I am looking for a someone to share the good and bad. Somedays you need a little more and somedays you need to give a little more. I'm not into drama, yours or mine, honest and looking for the same in a woman.
I’m a happy person, my glass is allways half full …usually with crystal light,,,. I'm always willing to share a smile, Try to make the best of all situations. I have a great sense of humor and can laugh at myself and will probably make you laugh at me too. Always enjoy a good joke or good-natured sarcastic banter. I would like to think I don't sweat the small things but I know I have my moments.

Love me without fear,
Trust me without questioning,
Need me without demanding,
Want me without restriction,
Accept me without change,
Love me for who I am.

Here is my test for you....
1. Can we talk about anything other than ourselves for an hour or two
2. Can we do a project together with ease make supper, assemble an ikea bookshelf
3. Can we occupy ourselves, play a game scrabble, crib, poker, chess?
4, Listen to each other Have a good ole argument, teach each other something
5. Do we share some basic ideologies family, religion, womens rights, race acceptance...morals and values..if not do we understand and respect them.

I have an amazing job travelling from Nanaimo to Victoria so please lets get a coffee and see how everything may work out,,,,,

Lawrie

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